Could we one day create the perfect boyfriend using genomics?

Ah, yes. The Frankenstein approach to dating: “It’s alive! It’s ALIVE!”

Well, first of all, define “perfect”. Everybody is looking for something different, and beauty is always in the eye of the beholder (regardless of what all those fashion magazines would have you believe). And even if we created the so-called “perfect” mate, our needs change over time – so what is perfect one year may not seem so perfect the next…

But aside from the obvious concerns about changing people into “perfect” matches for ourselves, we just aren’t technically able to alter genes to do exactly what we want. Plus, what genes would we change? We don’t yet know if there is a gene for cuddling, and if it exists, where is it in the genome?

If we go in and start changing genes, we may inadvertently change something that we liked. For example, changing a gene to ensure that your boyfriend always brings you flowers might for some reason also cause him to, say, lose his sense of smell – which means that the flowers he brings you might be stinkweed. Our genes have many uses and changing things may remove more than we expected.

Another issue is, when do you make the changes? It seems plain wrong to genetically manipulate small children for our own selfish purposes. So does that mean it is ok to do it to other adults? But ethics aside, even if we did it in adults, would it even make a difference? Adults have established behaviour patterns that may over-ride any genetic changes done.

Realistically speaking, there is no such thing as “perfect”. Everyone has their good points and bad points – and in order to make a relationship work, you have to accept both.

 

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July 2007